Information about our partners that we can't share with others.

There has been a divergent view with respect to whether we should share certain information about our partners to our friends and family. Mostly, two people in a relationship have different expectations about what should be shared, and with whom. There are certain information about our partners that we must not share with our friends and family and here are few tips to make your relationship last longer.

How they feel about other people.
This information is on a need to know basis, and your friends most don't need to know. If your partner isn't a fan of your friends, it's not the end of the world. They're your friends, not theirs. Don't tell your friends that your partner doesn't enjoy their company.

Details of your misunderstandings.
No one is perfect. Not you, not your partner and certainly not your friends and family. Even though we are all aware of this, yet we all judge those who make mistakes. If you and your partner got into a fight, that's your business. By telling your social circle or family, you're opening door for judgment. It doesn't matter who was at fault. Find a way to fix the problem, by sharing the details, you're guaranteeing yourself another misunderstandings soon. Telling anyone willing to listen won't solve the problem, working on it with the person you love will.

Personal problems.
Never discuss personal life issues with your friends in the hope of getting some positive inputs on things. If something bad happens in your partner's family, keep it to yourself because they trusted you with the information. If they find out you told others about them, you might never be trusted again.

Your partners weakness.
A good sign that your partner is your bestie is if they can trust you with things they wouldn't tell anyone else. There are some things you are not obliged to tell even your best friend, no matter how close you are. In the case of things that may embarrass your partner or cause them discomfort if others knew, the need to protect your partner is more important than your friends' need to know.

Put these very important but underestimated tips into practice and let's see how it will work for both to have a long lasting relationship. Remember, " it takes two to tango ".

Comments

  1. Saleh Fauzi Sinare (Kiki Sinare)15 April 2018 at 06:34

    Exactly
    I personally agree with you.

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  2. Unknown15 April 2018 at 08:05

    On point, telling people abt ur partner' weakness is de worse mistake in a relationship. I love ur tips; keep it up

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  3. Unknown15 April 2018 at 08:31

    Insightful.
    Always on point

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  4. CONFIDENCE BOOSTER15 April 2018 at 10:16

    The first and last points are very true.

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  5. CONFIDENCE BOOSTER15 April 2018 at 10:17

    The first and last points are very true.

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  6. Lifexperiences of sincerely naa15 April 2018 at 10:18

    What you've highlighted is very true but sometimes we need trusted people who can hear us out and genuinely help solve issues. Big ups!

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  7. FOKA15 April 2018 at 10:19

    Will do Counsellor

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  8. Better must come!15 April 2018 at 10:22

    You sure have stated facts but then again there is a saying that " if you dont sell your sickness you wont find medicine"

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  9. Unknown15 April 2018 at 10:28

    I agree with u

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  10. Sikapa15 April 2018 at 11:20

    Am surprised about it... that's is why most people relationship don't last long.. this article is a must read to all

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  11. Benedy Agorsor15 April 2018 at 11:39

    I agree with you.ypur partner trusts you with Their truth.once you share you break that trust

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  12. Unknown15 April 2018 at 12:49

    Well noted

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