AVOIDABLE MISTAKES IN LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS

Long distance relationship can be tough, sad and lonely at times, but that doesn't mean it's not going to work. These are few tips to guide you.

Communicate and value each others time.
Communication is key in every healthy relationship. Put yourself in your partners shoes. Would you appreciate anybody taking you for granted? Listen and understand each other. Be open and sincere. Call, Whatsapp, Skype whenever you can,even if it's just for an hour or a half "give time, give love".

Avoid being too jealous.
Jealousy can ruin even the most perfect relationship. Make sure to know what your partner doesn't like and if it can be avoided, avoid it. Don't let your partner feel insecure. Don't take for granted the things they say they don't like.

Avoid blames.
Don't always blame your partner when things aren't going the way you want them to. When there's a fight, don't blame your partner for going away or bring up any previous fight you have had. It just plays the role of oil to the flame.

Stay positive.
It's extremely important to be in a positive state of mind even if both of you have to stay away from each other.

Don't lose hope if your long distance relationship isn't going well. Every relationship goes through a lot before it gets better, especially if you want it to last forever not forgetting long distance relationship. Follow these simple tips and you'll see your relationship can be a cake walk. Don't forget to leave your comments.

Comments

  1. Lifexperiences of sincerely naa6 April 2018 at 02:22

    I'm in a LDR, and I must be truthful, it's not as easy as everyone knows it to be but it's worth it if you know what you want. Great piece dearest ❤️

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    1. Hasiah Issah 6 April 2018 at 02:32

      Thanks...It's not easy but you have to make it work.

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  2. FOKA6 April 2018 at 04:47

    What can i say counselor, your posts are always edifying.

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  3. Unknown6 April 2018 at 05:20

    Interesting

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  4. CONFIDENCE BOOSTER6 April 2018 at 05:31

    Communication is truly the key.

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  5. CONFIDENCE BOOSTER6 April 2018 at 05:31

    Communication is truly the key

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  6. Unknown6 April 2018 at 06:47

    Revealing and inspiring.
    Keep up the good work geared towards making others to having good relationship.

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  7. Saleh Fauzi Sinare (Kiki Sinare)6 April 2018 at 07:07

    Communication is very essential Thanks dear

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  8. Unknown6 April 2018 at 09:24

    I love dis piece, very inspiring

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  9. Unknown6 April 2018 at 09:25

    Keep it up

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  10. Unknown6 April 2018 at 10:02

    LDR really needs a lot of commitment, I believe that once there is low or no communication in a relationship it tends to weaken it, and LDR require much more of that. So u can imagine

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  11. Friendship6 April 2018 at 10:52

    Didn’t know jealousy can affect long distance relationships too

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  12. Benedy Agorsor6 April 2018 at 13:29

    It so refreshing to know there are possibilities of succeeding so long as both parties are willing to give their all

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  13. Unknown6 April 2018 at 22:04

    Nice one

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  14. Unknown8 April 2018 at 11:34

    Hmmmm it's not easy though but through this piece I hope one can make it happen. Thx

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  15. Juriah12 April 2018 at 01:20

    amazing work Hasiah

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  16. We Have A Voice Too12 April 2018 at 13:27

    really learnt a lot.. keep it up

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